we’ve been pretty isolated since bringing cedar home. funny that we should feel isolated now that we are out of the NICU. but as we move into the height of cold/flu season it seems nearly impossible to find anyone to hang out with…who is germ-free. we are being really vigilant about this, thus, have had hardly any social interaction for the past two weeks…we actually had more interaction at the hospital with all our wonderful doctors and nurses. can you say CABIN FEVER?
answer yes or no: have you had any cold/flu symptoms within the past week? is EVERYONE in your household currently cold/flu symptom free? if you answered no, then yes – we may in fact let you come into our house. have you gotten your flu shot? no? PLEASE DO. now, do you have any school age children? are you a teacher? have you hugged someone who may have been sick recently? if you answered yes to any of those questions and you want to visit – we may ask you to change into clean clothes before coming over and/or wear a mask around cedar. and we may or may not feel comfortable with you holding her. of course hand washing/sanitizing is a must. yes, it feels crazy. and obviously with this kind of criteria we are pretty much asking to not have a social life this winter – but when you have a baby with chronic lung disease and a compromised immune system, you have to be very cautious. the reality is – we can’t protect her completely and she will eventually get sick. we’re just hoping we can keep her well for several more months. the good news is, we are getting good at this kind of lock down living. cedar gets stronger every day. and spring is just around the corner….sort of.
speaking of spring – we’ve been busy doing some spring cleaning around here…ok, winter organizing. basically getting to the things that had to sit idle for the four months we were living back and forth between everett and seattle. heather has been doing lots of baby holding while i tackle things like cleaning out the attic and basement and making goodwill runs. you see, we had hopes of having a yard sale in september after our wedding…obviously neither of those things happened. and now that cedar is here it feels urgent to purge of things we don’t need. heather goes back to work in just a couple days so i’m trying to get as much done as possible while there’s a second set of hands available.
we’re getting in to a groove. cedar is still unpredictable in her sleeping – sometimes she wakes up hungry after 2.5 hours – other times she lets us sleep for 5. of course we’re tired. but all in all, she is a really GOOD baby. unlike some babies, cedar loves her bath time. when she was in the NICU we called it her spa time because she would literally fall asleep in the bath sometimes – she was so relaxed. i’m happy to report that cedar still loves her spa time:
of course, cedar wouldn’t be a baby without some grumpy time. so, she still has what we call her cranky hour around 9pm. we have found that by laying her down on the floor in her room without a diaper on – she works through her grumpiness a little faster…we call it her “dance it out” routine. we play a little music for her and she bicycles her legs and swings her hips like it’s nobody’s business…and even though she is still fussing she seems much happier not to mention she tends to wiggle out some of her evening gas.
every day we fall more and more in love with this little sapling. not a day goes by that we don’t feel so lucky to have her in our arms. she has been through so much in just a handful of months and despite it all…she is still one super happy baby.